Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself

  • Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself

    Posted by admin on February 6, 2025 at 4:31 pm

    Join us as we explore this amazing book by Dr. Joe Dispenza! This book was revolutionary for me a number of years ago, and I’m excited to dig into it again with my favorite ladies!

    You can access the Workshop videos here. The password to access the page is: bookclub

    • This discussion was modified 2 months ago by  hc-admin.
    Sadie replied 6 days, 14 hours ago 6 Members · 33 Replies
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  • Nathan

    Member
    February 6, 2025 at 4:34 pm

    Sorry to miss everyone that can’t make it this evening, but we’ll look forward to seeing you next week!🙌

  • Nathan

    Member
    February 6, 2025 at 4:37 pm
  • Nathan

    Member
    February 20, 2025 at 3:05 pm

    TGIT! What a book, huh? I can’t wait to catch up with everyone later and learn what you’re discovering. Here’s the link to join:
    https://us02web.zoom.us/j/87246483725?pwd=61NtKnokrxHWoIxNHbG8b2Xeyy4Cl2.1

    Here are some discussion points I thought I’d add:

    1. The Power of Thoughts and Emotions: Discuss how our thoughts and feelings create our reality and whether members have experienced this in their lives.

    2. Breaking the Cycle: Explore the concept of being stuck in a loop of repetitive thoughts and experiences, and share strategies to break free.

    3. Memories and Brain Shaping: Consider how memories influence daily behaviors and identify specific memories that shape current self-identity.

    4. Mental Rehearsal: Share experiences or ideas for practicing mental rehearsal, such as visualizing success in a challenging situation.

    5. Mind-Body Connection: Reflect on how thoughts affect the body’s biochemistry and discuss examples where mental state influenced physical health.

    6. Epigenetics: Discuss the role of epigenetics in personal transformation and whether knowing emotions can affect genes motivates better emotional management.

    Here are some additional questions that we may want to explore:

    1. Have you ever experienced a situation where changing your thoughts or feelings led to a change in your circumstances?

    2. How do memories influence your daily thoughts and behaviors? Can you identify specific memories that shape your current self?

    3. What are some ways you can practice mental rehearsal in your own life? Have you tried it before, and if so, what was your experience?

    4. How does the idea that thoughts affect our body’s biochemistry resonate with you? Can you think of any examples from your own life where your thoughts influenced your physical state?

    5. What role do you think epigenetics plays in personal transformation? Does knowing that our emotions can affect gene expression motivate you to manage your emotional states better?

    6. What are some practical steps you can take to overcome your environment and body’s habitual responses?

  • SusanW

    Member
    February 20, 2025 at 5:00 pm

    Hey Friends! Tonight is my Quaker Meeting’s book club meeting, so I won’t see you, but I’m hoping to catch up on my reading and see you all next week 💖

    • admin

      Administrator
      February 21, 2025 at 11:34 am

      We missed you, but we look forward to seeing you next week!

  • Nathan

    Member
    February 27, 2025 at 4:25 pm

    TGIT! Sorry we will be missing Susan and Tracy tonight, but I’m looking forward to seeing everyone else that can make it.

    https://us02web.zoom.us/j/83393370421?pwd=YbRtBg78bkOzJhVbmlOp6ZDFDZTbEw.1

  • SusanW

    Member
    March 6, 2025 at 9:23 am

    Friends!

    I have come to a place where I must admit that I’m simply not going to be able to do this book with you. 😞 I just have too much going on right now (mostly good things!) and the evenings are too much for me. I love you and miss you and hope to see you all soon! 💖

    • Nathan

      Member
      March 6, 2025 at 4:45 pm

      Oh no! I totally get it, and you will be missed. Thanks for the heads up and we look forward to time with you down the road. Thanks for everything you have contributed to our club!

    • Tracy

      Member
      March 6, 2025 at 6:48 pm

      We’ll definitely miss you, but understand having too much going on. I’m glad it’s mostly good stuff and look forward to seeing you sometime soon!

  • Nathan

    Member
    March 6, 2025 at 4:46 pm

    TGIT! It’s amazing how quickly these weeks go by isn’t it? It’s that time again:
    https://us02web.zoom.us/j/82691763825?pwd=Zh68pDDlm1RLmYbZbyWj3CmsxMVTIf.1

  • Joanne

    Member
    March 13, 2025 at 1:22 pm

    Sorry, won’t make it for this week’s book club session. Book indexing deadline issue.

    • Nathan

      Member
      March 13, 2025 at 4:37 pm

      We will miss you Joanne! See you soon.

  • Nathan

    Member
    March 13, 2025 at 4:38 pm

    TGIT! Looking forward to seeing everyone that can make it!

    https://us02web.zoom.us/j/85153158499?pwd=EzEAezWg3VbBcC3kzpoofhryjknt0K.1

  • Nathan

    Member
    March 20, 2025 at 4:39 pm

    TGIT, and Happy Spring!! 🌻
    Big announcement tonight and I hope you’re all able to make it. Here’s the Zoom Link:

    https://us02web.zoom.us/j/86212207613?pwd=Qb4bsp95SnSMqUbg7Pq3uctKHsdh1o.1

  • Nathan

    Member
    March 20, 2025 at 6:23 pm

    In case you missed it from the chat, here’s the link to the Induction Meditation:

    https://soundcloud.com/marcuslpetersen/week-1-water-rising

  • Sadie

    Member
    March 29, 2025 at 12:40 pm

    Hey Everyone,

    I’m going to have to miss bookclub today. I’m having some issues that have landed me in the hospital. I’ve been here for two days. Hopefully they can figure out what is wrong so I can get out of here. I really hope to see y’all next week. Have fun! 😀

    • Nathan

      Member
      March 29, 2025 at 3:59 pm

      Oh no! Get better soon Sadie! We will miss you and will be praying for a speedy diagnosis and recovery. Practice your meditation while you’re hospital bound! 😊

  • Nathan

    Member
    March 29, 2025 at 4:00 pm

    TGIS! 🙂

    It’s weird to be doing it on a Saturday, isn’t it? I’m looking forward to seeing everyone that can make it and here’s the link:

    https://us02web.zoom.us/j/89793347230?pwd=6Og67Lr8nKwZcrIg5Yh2TZyzCC4jM2.1

  • Sadie

    Member
    April 5, 2025 at 2:53 pm

    Hey y’all, I don’t know if I can make it tonight either, still bed bound, but I’m going to try my best!! If I can’t make it, I’ll be thinking about y’all! ❤️

    • Nathan

      Member
      April 5, 2025 at 3:54 pm

      We’ve been praying for you Sadie! Get better soon. 🙏

  • Tracy

    Member
    April 5, 2025 at 3:27 pm

    Hi Sadie! Hopefully you can join us, but if not, know that we’re thinking about you and sending you healing vibes.🥰

  • Nathan

    Member
    April 5, 2025 at 3:55 pm

    TGIS! Week 8 already. Can you believe it? It’s been so good!

    Here’s the Zoom link: https://us02web.zoom.us/j/85981378683?pwd=PpFU5l8KaAprAUJmPQlmkbhlH9aB58.1

  • Sadie

    Member
    April 7, 2025 at 6:42 pm

    Oh you guys… It was so good to see you all on Saturday. Even if I had to do it from my hospital bed. I want to thank you all for your good thoughts, prayers, and well wishes!! I’ve been in the hospital/rehab center for a week and a half now. And let me tell you, as most of you probably know, it’s not a cakewalk!! And knowing that I have a group such as you, and all of H+C, is truly helping me to keep my sanity! This whole group means the world to me! And I love you all! ❤️

    • Nathan

      Member
      April 7, 2025 at 7:23 pm

      Ahh Sadie. It was so good to see you! We’re grateful to know that what you’re dealing with sounds like a very treatable condition, so we’re thankful. Thanks for checking in and for your faithfulness to our group. It’s a particularly special time that we get to spend together, and I love seeing everyone’s face each week.

      Thanks for checking in and we’ll continue to pray for your speedy recovery!🙏

      • Sadie

        Member
        April 19, 2025 at 1:09 pm

        Thank you, Nate! And you’re welcome. I’m glad it’s treatable too. Bookclub and all of the H+C Community, definitely help lift my spirits. ❤️

    • SusanW

      Member
      April 8, 2025 at 9:19 am

      Lots of love to you Sadie!!!! 💖

      • Sadie

        Member
        April 19, 2025 at 12:47 pm

        Thank you so much, Susan. It’s been baby steps all over again, but I’m getting there little by little! ❤️

  • Nathan

    Member
    April 7, 2025 at 7:25 pm

    Thanks to Janet for sharing this Induction Meditation inspired by Dr. Joe Dispenza! As I listened to it, I was grateful for the time I gave myself.

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vS0gPJqra6I

  • Nathan

    Member
    April 7, 2025 at 7:39 pm

    Here is the Celtic Tree Calendar that Janet referenced in our Book Club on Saturday. I converted it to be a smaller file size, so hopefully this works for everyone! You may need to download it to your device to view it.

    Thanks for sharing, Janet.

  • Nathan

    Member
    April 12, 2025 at 3:34 pm

    Thank God It’s Saturday! I’m looking forward to exploring and sharing with you. Happy Spring! 🌻
    Here’s the link just in case:

    https://us02web.zoom.us/j/87334907290?pwd=HbElV9VXuPYWhVOs5BaI00nbsuiEEa.1

    • Joanne

      Member
      April 13, 2025 at 11:35 am

      Sorry to miss yesterday’s book club session. Hubby needed help with yard project that took longer than expected. Sending hugs to everyone!

  • Sadie

    Member
    April 17, 2025 at 3:11 pm

    Just wanted to post this here and share. It’s also a reminder to me of what I said I would be accountable for. 😀

    my brain and heart divorced

    a decade ago

    over who was

    to blame about

    how big of a mess

    I have become

    eventually,

    they couldn’t be

    in the same room

    with each other

    now my head and heart

    share custody of me

    I stay with my brain

    during the week

    and my heart

    gets me on weekends

    they never speak to one another

    – instead, they give me

    the same note to pass

    to each other every week

    and their notes they

    send to one another always

    says the same thing:

    “This is all your fault”

    on Sundays

    my heart complains

    about how my

    head has let me down

    in the past

    and on Wednesday

    my head lists all

    of the times my

    heart has screwed

    things up for me

    in the future

    they blame each

    other for the

    state of my life

    there’s been a lot

    of yelling – and crying

    so,

    lately, I’ve been

    spending a lot of

    time with my gut

    who serves as my

    unofficial therapist

    most nights, I sneak out of the

    window in my ribcage

    and slide down my spine

    and collapse on my

    gut’s plush leather chair

    that’s always open for me

    ~ and I just sit sit sit sit

    until the sun comes up

    last evening,

    my gut asked me

    if I was having a hard

    time being caught

    between my heart

    and my head

    I nodded

    I said I didn’t know

    if I could live with

    either of them anymore

    “my heart is always sad about

    something that happened yesterday

    while my head is always worried

    about something that may happen tomorrow,”

    I lamented

    my gut squeezed my hand

    “I just can’t live with

    my mistakes of the past

    or my anxiety about the future,”

    I sighed

    my gut smiled and said:

    “in that case,

    you should

    go stay with your

    lungs for a while,”

    I was confused

    – the look on my face gave it away

    “if you are exhausted about

    your heart’s obsession with

    the fixed past and your mind’s focus

    on the uncertain future

    your lungs are the perfect place for you

    there is no yesterday in your lungs

    there is no tomorrow there either

    there is only now

    there is only inhale

    there is only exhale

    there is only this moment

    there is only breath

    and in that breath

    you can rest while your

    heart and head work

    their relationship out.”

    this morning,

    while my brain

    was busy reading

    tea leaves

    and while my

    heart was staring

    at old photographs

    I packed a little

    bag and walked

    to the door of

    my lungs

    before I could even knock

    she opened the door

    with a smile and as

    a gust of air embraced me

    she said

    “what took you so long?”

    ~ john roedel

    (art by Paula Rosello)

    • Joanne

      Member
      April 17, 2025 at 4:33 pm

      Thank you so much, Sadie! What a wonderful reminder. I shall go check in with my lungs . . . 🙂